For becoming so called ‘Modern’ we are forgetting our traditions and trying to adjust in other traditions because they make our mind like, what they do only that is great. And we just for become great, leaving our traditions forgetting that we are already great from our ancient times.
You all saw many people in your society and also the transformation which is going on. Parents and schools are forcing children’s to speak English rather than Hindi which is our national days. The reason behind this is the western peoples who make English as a class and we (people like me) can write and talk very fluently in English because we have to show that I am much greater than you. We are that much adjustable that you can suppress 7 people in 4 seater car. In fact sometimes I think why they make Hindi as national language. The technical product which import in India or manufacture in India the only language which get more preference is English and this is the reason why I write in English because it’s so hard to remember Hindi keywords. They taught me everything in English except Hindi (if it is also written in English they used to taught me it in English also). This is about language or educational transformation. In ancient times we have the best universities like Nalanda and Taxila. People of western countries used to come for learning but now what we are doing just copy and paste of western style. Why we are not going through the way in which we are good? The answer is only in single word “CLASS”.
Now about the “Pattern of Living”- We all know how our eating habits, sleeping habits, and most important dressing sense is transforming day by day. The use of spoons, forks and chopstick are the proofs. Now we don’t like to eat by our hand in public because it shows you are a middle class person (Its our present mentality). The dressing sense, by God how rapidly we are transforming or dresses soon we will look like “MODERN AADIVASI” because some great people says that If you have it then flaunt it like how people who have iphone flaunt it everytime. Sometime when I saw some boys or girls (mostly girls), it seems like one sun is for all of us and one is only for them. To get rid from that much of heat they use to wear a very light and transparent dress but if you say something then you get reply, I have it and I flaunt it. One dialogue which is in trends “ wear those clothes in which you feel comfortable” and the system of copying western style has gone far behind our thinking , students go institutes in lower, kefre and such like. I am not saying that changes are not good but there should be limit. We are Indians and we have a great heart, all our customs and traditions lies in our heart we can’t remove it from our heart so why to give more importance to their style why not we make our style or transform our traditions not to adopt someone other tradition.

These transformation led to our society so stressful. We take hardly 4hrs of good sleep. We are just pretending like we are so classy or equal to western people but the problem is we are stressful and they are happy because they do in which they are good and we do in which we are not good. We are known as an agricultural country but our country is totally dependent on service sector because farmers have no class. You can’t get respect from anyone if you say that I am a farmer.
And lastly I am very thankful to those parents who don’t make pressure on their child to do what they want. Let the child do agriculture, sports , business and such like. Don’t think about society , the society is made up of us. We are the society.
Let start from small change, fist learn Hindi than English and other language. Presently only few people you get who can speak Hindi without using a single world of English.
“Changes are good and it should be but it doesn’t mean that you forget your way of living”